How to Deal with Grief with Kids

We’re not experts on childhood grief.  Here’s what we do know.

Children grow up in what seems like a minute.  Just when you figure out their needs, those needs change.   During their different stages of development, kids have big changes in emotional needs.

Their bereavement needs are unique, too.  Kids are easily confused by the vague terms we sometimes use when there’s been a death.  A death of a family member or friend can cause behavioral changes, insomnia, and fear.

If you’re a caregiver for a child who’s dealing with grief, get comfortable with the topic of death.  The best way to talk with a kid about death is honestly.  Children are very open minded.  They deal better with direct specific information.  Vague terms about death can be confusing and frightening for them.

One source for information on managing grief with kids is an organization called Good Grief.  A non-profit organization based here in the U.S., Good Grief has numerous resources and tips sheets on dealing with children, teens, young adults, and families who have or will experience a death of a family member or friend.  Click here to watch a TEDxAsbury Park talk by Good Grief CEO Joe Primo. 

Here are some other resources that might help a child you know deal with death, grief, and bereavement issues.

1. good-grief.org

2. https://childdevelopmentinfo.com/how-to-be-a-parent/communication/talk-to-kids-death/#.W8xwpWhKhPY

3. https://childrengrieve.org/

4. https://www.newyorklife.com/foundation/bereavement

Let’s face it – grief can be difficult for most adults to figure out.  Kids deserve all the help we can give to deal with it, too.

Remember, no matter who you are, or where you are in your hospice journey,

You are the Heart of Hospice.